Her Standard
A private community for high-value women who want to intentionally find and choose their dream husband, surrounded by women who share the same standards.
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Are you still dating?
You’re won’t just settle for anyone—and you shouldn’t.
But maybe you’ve found yourself feeling one of these…
Wasting time on the wrong men
Going on dates that go nowhere and leave you feeling disappointed, drained, or unimpressed.
Dating below your standards
Meeting men who don’t match your level, your values, or the future you actually want.
Watching time pass while staying single
Wanting a relationship that’s building toward marriage, not still wondering “when” year after year.
Overthinking every part of dating
Second-guessing texts, dates, and decisions with no clear system to tell you what’s right.
Comparing yourself to women who found great partners.
Seeing others move forward while quietly questioning why it hasn’t happened for you yet.
Dating with clear standards.
Knowing exactly what you’re looking for and no longer entertaining connections that don’t align with your values, your lifestyle, or the future you want to build.
Choosing men who meet you where you are.
Spending your time on dates that feel intentional, aligned, and respectful, rather than wasting energy on people who were never right for you.
Feeling at ease about your timeline.
Trusting that you are moving forward with purpose and clarity, instead of feeling anxious about time passing or wondering if you’re falling behind.
Feeling confident in your own path.
No longer comparing yourself to other women because you understand your choices, your standards, and the direction you’re heading.
Dating with calm instead of stress.
Approaching dating with a clear framework that removes guesswork, reduces overthinking, and allows you to feel grounded and self-assured in your decisions.
How to find Your Dream Husband
I’ve been where you are and now I know it doesn’t have to be that way.
Finding your dream husband just takes a few easy changes.
“At 36, after many long-term relationships, a failed engagement, and dating hundreds (yes, over 200 first dates in two years), my confidence was shot. I didn’t understand what wasn’t sticking. Up until this point, I was able to “achieve” anything I worked hard for. I was in shape, took care of myself emotionally and physically, had a doctorate degree and kick-ass friends, but couldn’t land the relationship that I wanted.
I worked with Laura for over a year. Her coaching was tailored specifically for me, helping me to understand and remove the roadblocks that were getting in my way. Things identified were anything from my mindset, to the pics on my profile, to how I was swiping, and finally revamping my wardrobe so that it’s more male-attracting and not man-repeller.
Fast forward to today and I’m in a committed relationship with my dream man. Without Laura’s advice and coaching, not only would I have not met this person, but I would not have known how to communicate my needs when I did. Thank you, Laura, for changing my life. I’m forever grateful.”
— Clara
Clara went on 200 Failed first dates Before Laura Found her Dream man
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The Proven System To Find Your Dream Husband
Her Standard Method
Dating can only be successful when standards are defined, strategy is intentional, and decisions are made from clarity rather than emotion. This requrires a framework to work from and suport to stay on the right path, dating with purpose instead of hope. The result is a grounded sense of confidence, knowing you’re on the way toward marriage with intention instead of guesswork.
Each month, Laura teaches a focused live class on one core area of successful dating. These sessions go beyond surface-level advice and break down what’s really happening beneath your dating patterns, helping you make smarter, more intentional choices. You leave each class with direction, insight, and the calm confidence that comes from finally understanding what to do next.
The Monthly Class
The Her Standard Library houses the foundational resources every woman needs to date well, starting with how to use the most effective dating tool in the new world. These resources give you tools, structure, and repeatable frameworks you can apply immediately, so you’re no longer relying on trial and error. Past replays of every live call are added to the library. The relief comes from knowing you finally have a system instead of guessing and hoping.
Her Standard Library
Her Standard is a private space filled with women who share similar values, standards, and intentions around marriage. Inside the community, you learn not only from Laura but from the experiences, insights, and perspectives of other high-quality women walking the same path. Being in this environment normalizes healthy standards and replaces doubt with a sense of belonging and certainty.
The Community
The monthly coaching and Q&A calls give you the chance to bring your real situations into the room, ask questions, and get direct guidance from Laura. This is where things get personalized, nuanced, and practical. Instead of overthinking alone, you get clarity in real time and the reassurance of knowing you’re not navigating dating by yourself anymore.
Coaching + Q&A
Laura Jacobs
Laura Jacobs, star of Roku’s Match Me In Miami, transiting from the fashion world to business, has made an imprint in the world of matchmaking and dating coaching by giving practical tips, and no-nonsense advice.
Laura knows there is a big hole in the dating coaching marketplace. “I was targeted all day by ads from other dating coaches, being told you have to manifest your man or change yourself so much to find the one, and I decided it was time to make a change and speak my truth.”
Unlike many other dating coaches and gurus who pretend to be perfect, Laura openly shares her past dating struggles, making her relatable to her audience. In the end, Laura found the love of her life and is a mother of two sets of twins! She is one of the few matchmakers who practices what she preaches.
She shares relationship guidance on Instagram, talking about her own experiences in dating. Such articles have appeared in reputed publications like The LA Times and other magazines. Her honesty in sharing her dating stories and heartbreaks is fresh and unique, unlike many who claim to have it “all figured out.”
Before becoming a successful entrepreneur, matchmaker, and dating coach, Laura carved out her own place in the world of modeling and film and tv acting. She has appeared in many network tv shows and notable feature films.
Laura currently lives with her husband and children in Miami, Florida, and serves wealthy singles nationwide.
Testimonials
“When I felt helpless in the world of dating, Laura's timely arrival was a godsend.”
She shared her own experiences with me and equipped me with tools that allowed me to evaluate relationships from a more realistic point-of-view - this gave me insight into behaviors often seen as the standard by society but which are detrimental to any long-lasting relationship. Her advice has been invaluable! It felt like we had known each other for years; she is genuine and sincere, never trying to put on an act for money or gain anything else out of our conversations. Not only do I value Laura's counsel, but I also watch her Instagram reels regularly as they serve as great reminders of golden advice! When I'm ready to locate my significant other, Laura is the only person I trust with this important task.
Even if someone catches my eye on my own accord, Laura will be an invaluable source of wisdom that I can turn to should any questions come up. She's the dating angel everyone needs in their lives!
— Aleya, 34
“Laura genuinely cares about finding the perfect person for you, is highly proactive, great at communicating, and extremely knowledgeable.”
“There just aren't enough superlatives to describe Laura's matchmaking service. From our first meeting, I felt comfortable and safe; she clearly outlined her services, fees, and expectations. Leaving no stone unturned, she answered every question and addressed every concern I could think of. She was patient and allowed me to make the best decision for me, something not everybody is willing to do.
Once I was on board, we talked at great length about exactly what I wanted without any judgment, and she quickly got to work on creating my profile. Within no time, she sent me the profiles of several unbelievably strong matches, and soon after I was off on dates.
I have never had to chase Laura; I don't know if she has an off-switch, in fact, because no matter what day of the week or what time it is, she is hard at work for me: sending me profiles, contacting girls, coaching me on the finer points of dating or following up with me post date to break down my thoughts and feelings.
She has always gone above and beyond what her services offer and has never missed the mark when recommending a girl. She won't let me settle for anything other than what I truly deserve and has always encouraged me to seek what I need.
Laura is the benchmark against which other matchmakers should be measured, and I consider myself extremely lucky to have her as my matchmaker. If you question whether you will ever meet your dream partner, you owe it to yourself to hire Laura, because I promise she will not only help you meet someone great, but she will help you find the other half of you. Thank you, Laura, for helping me in my chase of love and companionship. I will always be forever grateful.”
— Shawn, 37
Her Standard
Monthly Subscription
$97/month
☑ Live Monthly Her Standard Class
☑ Monthly Live Coaching + Q&A Calls
☑ Global Community of High-Value Women
☑ Immediate Access to the “How To Date Successfully In The New World” Course
☑ Learn At Your Pace Resources As They Are Released
☑ Cancel anytime
Annual Subscription
$997/month
☑ Live Monthly Her Standard Class
☑ Monthly Live Coaching + Q&A Calls
☑ Global Community of High-Value Women
☑ Immediate Access to the “How To Date Successfully In The New World” Course
☑ Learn At Your Pace Resources As They Are Released
☑ Cancel anytime
In addition…
☑ VIP WhatsApp chat for more access
☑ 2 months free compared to monthly
☑ One decision, one payment, a whole year of continuous support
☑ Perfect for the woman ready to commit to Her Standard
Frequently Asked Questions
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Yes – through the monthly lessons, coaching, and Q&A calls. You can bring your specific questions and get support tailored to you.
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Her Standard is designed to fit into your life, not take it over. Even an hour a month with the right information can create noticeable change. You’ll have resources you can revisit anytime, at your own pace.
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All live calls will be recorded and uploaded so that you can access at a more convenient time.
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That’s exactly the point of the Her Standard method. The resources give you a framework to follow, the coaching & community give you support along the way.
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A monthly membership can be canceled at any time. An annual membership is a one-time commitment for the year that comes with extra savings and commitment. While an annual subscription cannot be canceled or refunded mid-subscription, it can be canceled or switched to monthly before it renews.
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How much is finding your dream husband worth to you?
